Details of Brenda's birth are not known.

Brenda married Trevor Dyke Lavender in 1963 in Lower Gornal, Worcestershire.

She had the following children from her marriage to Trevor Dyke Lavender:

- Ian Lavender	born in 1967 (date suppressed) in Wolverhampton, Staffordshire.
- Jason Lavender	born in 1970 (date suppressed) in Dudley, Worcestershire.