Stephen Lavender was the son of John Lavender and Sarah Perks.

Stephen was born around 1720 in Dudley, Worcestershire.

Stephen married Mary Wean on Tuesday 1 June 1745.

He had the following children from his marriage to Mary Wean:

- John Lavender	born around 1746.
- Sarah Lavender	born around 1748.
- Mary Lavender	born around 1750.
- Margaret Lavender	born around 1754.
- Stephen Lavender	born around 1757.
- Susannah Lavender	born around 1760.
- Edward Lavender	born around 1763.

Details of Stephen's occupation are not known.

Stephen died when he was about 68 years old, in 1788.  

He was buried on Wednesday 23 January 1788 in Dudley, Worcestershire.